Showing posts with label Family Support Iraq. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family Support Iraq. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

HERE'S WHAT I THINK

For what it's worth.

After reading THIS
I was compelled to respond.
while doing just that it occurred to me that I was using up a lot of AirbornDad's space for my blathering, so I decided to turn my comment into a post.
Dad if you take exception at my directing readers away from your blog, please accept my apologies.


A couple of things.

1) A lot of the soldiers read blogs. So they know that they have the support of those of us who write blogs, and those of you who comment.
By showing your support of us, and sending your well wishes for our soldiers, you support them.
My son, Spc Matthew Rider, 2-23rd inf 4th bde strykers, currently in Baghuba, reads this blog, and truly appreciates your support.
He emails me frequently, but is always wary of commenting in a public manner.
Big brother is watching, and they do reprimand soldiers for commenting publicly about their feelings regarding the war...
Unless, of course their opinion is in line with the leaders, and they give a glowing review of how things are going, and tell of how happy they are to be, "living the dream".

2)The support of those who have no one serving is low because no-one but those of us with loved ones fighting are being asked to sacrifice anything.

3) My opinion, (hate me if you want) Our soldiers aren't dieing in Iraq for our freedom. They're dieing while trying to free the Iraqi people.
If we were fighting for our freedom and security, we wouldn't have directed our attention away from Afghanistan and hunting down Ossama to settle George Bush's personal vendetta with Saddam.
Let's not forget that we still have soldiers fighting that battle who are under staffed, and under funded.
Who's supporting them?
Those of us with soldiers who aren't do to get out anytime soon will probably see them there before long.
4) If we were fighting for our freedom and security, we'd be in Pakistan rooting out al-Quaida.
al-Quaida came to Iraq to attack us.
They see the civil war in Iraq as an opportunity to kill Americans.
And they don't care how many innocent Iraqis become collateral damage.
If you really want to support the troops, send letters, or call your congressmen and let them know how you feel about the situation.
Oh, and continue commenting here, and on family of soldiers blogs.
Read some of the blogs on the sidebars of this blog, and "Onepercenters", and comment there also.
The soldiers in infantry units serving outside the wire don't have a lot of free time.
they work long hours with little personal time, but I can tell you that they do spend time on line, when they can, and they do appreciate your kind words, well wishes, and prayers.
As do we, the families.
You too are hero's.
God bless you.

Please not:
I didn't mention our president's glowing review of the war on national television today...

Monday, October 22, 2007

SO YOU SUPPORT THE TROOPS?

I read with great interest Will Bardenwerper’s article from the New York Times, as linked to by my friend Mark in his new blog.
Check it out here,
One Percenters.
When commenting on the high percent of re-enlistments, Mr Bardenwerper said,
“Supposedly impressive re-enlistment rates are cited as evidence that soldiers enthusiastically support the war effort. In reality, these retention numbers are more the result of the “stop-loss” policy, where soldiers are required to remain in the Army after their contracts have expired if their units are deployed or ordered to deploy soon. My platoon’s infantrymen expected to be “stop-lossed” and some felt they might as well cash in on the re-enlistment bonuses if they were going to be forced to stay in the Army anyway.”

Soldiers only one year into their contract are being asked to re-enlist.
And when they respectfully decline, they find themselves being scheduled for extra duty, and being passed over for promotion.
The new Army has changed little, operationally, from the old Army.
The biggest difference is that it is staffed by individuals with more education.
All that means is that the slackers can no longer be called dumb and lazy.
They still have a way of being in the right place at the right time to shine while the superiors are watching.
Mainly because the true workers, the backbone of companies, are exhausted, and they, the slackers, are well rested and ready to bust butt when the opportune moment arises.
Slackers don’t like the workers.
And if you happen to be unlucky enough to end up with a slacker for a top, (1st Sergeant), you are truly in a bad spot.


I got an email from Matt on that very subject just the other day.
Seems he has a couple of slackers in his platoon, one of which is the platoon sergeant.
I’ll share with you some of his comments, but know that some of it is not in Sunday go to meeting lingo, so I’ll correct a little of it.

"I have a platoon sergeant who I trust when we're getting shot at and getting blown up, but as a person he's a complete prick with no skills outside of tactical decision making.
He lets his mood swings dictate our lives.
Every time he is asked to do anything, he gets pissed off at us.
He wants to promote this kid ******. ***** is the biggest slacker I've met in the army.
He's a disrespectful prick, he can't make any hard time on time, me and ##### do his job for him (get the truck fixed and shit, which is not our job at all) and he falls asleep in the middle of missions behind the gun (he's the gunner on my vehicle). Webster should be the one getting promoted not him.
We have to wake him up, remind him to shave, tell him what needs to be fixed on the truck and who to talk to to get it done quick and right. For some reason, the more this kid screws up the more they want to promote him. Then there’s us who are always on time even when the NCO's are late, always working to get things fixed and working right no matter how long we've been out or how soon we're going back out, and we’re told we won’t make E-5 because we have no team leader experience. Well SEND US SOMEWHERE WHERE WE CAN GET THE EXPERIENCE THAN.
Its not bad enough that we're over here getting blown up and shot at we have to deal with ignorance and retarded people who think their job is about making us miserable at every possible chance.
My job is infantry not communications not medic, not mechanic. Yet when ever anything goes wrong with the radios I get, “ what's wrong with the radios”?, to which I reply,
"why don't you ask sgt McClung he's the commo specialist, he knows how to fix that shit". And I’m told, “I don’t' care, just make it work”. I want this, I want that, I want a monkey in a pink dress playing the symbols, make it happen.
Then they had the gall to ask me if I'm going to re-enlist! Without hesitation I say "#@$# NO" which gets them all riled up, so they ask angrily “why not” to which I reply, "I would rather be gay", (thank you for the honesty gene whichever one of you gave it to me).
So that got me every other guard shift on the roof of this building we took over until they got their panties all unbunched.

Other than that, I'm happy as a pig in shit cause I'm coming home in a few weeks and I don't have to deal with any of this shit for nearly a month".


So there's a little insight from the horses mouth.
I'm not sure if he's heard of the stop loss issue yet?

I replied to his message that he should keep up the good work, and that sooner or later it will pay off.
Whether in the military, or civilian life, good work is rewarded sooner or later.
Even if that reward is only the feeling of self pride he'll get as he looks back on these days and knows that he gave it his all.

Deborah Gianoulis Heald's contribution to the 1%ers blog today struck a chord with me.
Her son is a Marine who is home after his first deployment, and who upon seeing, "We Support Our Troops" bumper stickers wanted to ask the people in the car, "“What are you willing to do to support us? What are you willing to sacrifice?”
How often I have thought the very same thing.
Now I understand that some of these folks have a family member serving, and that's why they display the sticker. Yet I wonder how many aren't?
Some would argue that by purchasing and displaying the stickers they are at least acknowledging our sons and daughters who serve, and I guess I agree.
Yet I wonder about how many people pay lip service to supporting the troops, but can't find the time to volunteer even an hour to pack care packages to send to the troops. Or half an hour to find a soldier on Myspace and drop him an email telling him that your proud of him and thankful for his service to our country. Or a minute to walk up to a soldier in uniform and shake his hand and simply say than you.
I have had friends and acquaintances upon finding out that my son is in Iraq, say thank you to me.
I always thank them for their kindness, and respectfully request that if nothing more, they donate a minute or two of every day to think about the war, and the individuals fighting it. Think about the hardships they and their families endure,



and if so moved say a simple prayer that they will all return home safe.

If you spend just two or three minutes a day doing that, you will begin to understand what it is to live the daily life of a one percenter.

In closing, I ask that all who read this please get involved by paying close attention to the politicians both in office and running for election. Make notes about their stand on the war. And when it is time to vote, support those individuals that will work for a strategy beneficial to us and the citizens of Iraq, to end our involvement in their world.